Whether you are an employee or an employer, there were times you pissed people off with your toxic attitude. And it doesn’t really matter whether it’s once in a while you do it or on a daily basis. Truth is, those around you are the ones suffering it and it’s unhealthy for a good work environment. So, here are a few of those sickening traits you should work on doing away with:
- You take everything personally: No matter how amazing you are, people hate it when you seem to believe that everything that happens in life is a direct attack on you. So, next time you are sad, hurt or disappointed, let wisdom and intuition guide you in handling the situation, rather than taking things personally.
- You are obsessed about negative ideas and thoughts: When you constantly nag and feel bitter about certain ugly situations around you and not feel positive and confident about a better tomorrow, then those around are sure to get affected. It’s normal to be scared or pessimistic, but remaining unhopeful is toxic.
- You treat yourself like a victim: This is another poisonous trait that you should work on. Believing you are a victim, unable to influence a positive change is a toxic attitude that keeps you stuck and small. So, you need to start believing in yourself and in your potentials.
- You need to be validated constantly: If you are the type who wants to have an increase in self-esteem by obsessing about achieving external success, then you need to watch it. Too much of worry over how certain successes should be recorded instead of going with life in a more flexible and an easy manner can be more damaging to not just you alone but also to those around you.